Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label marriage. Show all posts

Monday, May 18, 2020

A Wedding Blessing For Couples Getting Married During Covid-19


 Sometimes my oldest sister calls to ask if I have written or would/could consider writing a poem about a certain topic. This was such a time. She was looking for a poem to put in wedding cards where they are invited guests but are unable to attend due to social distancing. I am sharing it in hopes that it may bless and comfort the couples who do  not have the joy of a traditional wedding...


Love suffers long and it is kind; bears and believes all things
It endures and secures us in the troubles that life brings
Love never fails, the Great Sustain-er in times hard and strange
When cruel disappointment allows things we cannot change

Dear Lord, we know that You behold this lovely bride and groom
And how they miss what’s missing in the Ceremony Room
Then Lord, instill the absence of dear friends and family
With Your fulfilling Presence and love’s divine sympathy

Be near to we who are with them in thought if not in form
Grant us Thy perfect peace, (not as the world gives) in this storm
Satisfy pain with promises that nothing can replace
Surprise the bitter blow with joy possible by Your grace

Thou, Favoured Wedding Guest, fill emptiness with comfort sweet
Lord, bless this day with happiness and make their joy complete
Where, as from this day forward, they, no longer two but one
Have learned, from the beginning who Greater, to lean upon

And as they vow to love each other faithfully always
Lord, fill us with thanksgiving that will fill Your courts with praise
And Lord we pray that You will shelter them close to Your heart
With Your goodness and mercy to follow till death doth part

© Janet Martin

Surely Goodness and Mercy will follow me all the days of my life
And I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever
Psalm 23:6

Monday, June 3, 2019

Token of Triumph


 Used this pic years ago here
but I love it and so will share it again.
Says so much in so little!

Difference of opinion
Well, yes, we've had a few
Bumps along the way, hon
We sure have had them too
Words, best left unspoken
(Blush, shame on both you and me)
But Today is Triumph’s token;
Happy Anniversary

Marriage is the proof of
Two, fighting love’s good fight
Not because it’s easy, love
But because it's right
Keeping marriage vows, dear
Is not for faint of heart
But worth each mile-smile-cheer-tear
If we both do our part

Then as the years fly by, hon
The mem’ries we create
Will be the sacred reason
For us to celebrate
For we know the full truth, hon
…what others do not see
Thus revering each milestone;
Happy Anniversary

© Janet Martin

Monday, November 19, 2018

In Case This Is It!


 In case today is our final farewell...
how are we/did we do?

Suddenly splitting wood (and cleaning around the woodstove)
and starting a fire seems like a sacred chore😉


I just re-evaluated my good-byes this morning...
 (I've done better but I've also done worse)
to # 1, "Drive safe. I'll be praying for you! 
(he's back in school for part 2 of an apprentice-ship program)
to #2...highschool-girl. A prayer together and 'have a good day'
to #3 hubby/breadwinner a quick kiss see ya' and 'have a good week'!
(among other conversations too 30-year marriage-like to bother you with the details-wink-lol!)
This poem was inspired by something in one of those door-way conversations...




In case this is the last time
We jump out of bed
Butter bread
Pour coffee, 
or bow our head to pray
Or pick a tie
Or wave good-bye
Or watch the rosy sky 
wake up the day

In case this is the last time
They see our face
Feel our embrace
Hear our voice, 
did we scowl or laugh?
Did we take love’s chance
While time still grants
Its song and dance 
to make life a beautiful autograph


In case this is it
No more stubbing toe, o-h-h-h!
Or second cuppa joe,
Or splitting wood, 
Or dream or plan
Did we do our best
So richly blessed
To make the most
With what we have while we still can


© Janet Martin


Oh! you wanted to know what that doorway conversation was?!😊😉
Well, it was something like
"I almost have more than I can carry!" says he
to which I replied mischievously on purpose, 'more than you can carry!!! SO richly blessed!'
Though I knew he meant before he said 'a good wife would put on her boots and help her man'
(even if I thought it appeared he was managing just fine!)
(even if I just took them off after loading up the garbage and he didn't say anything😐)
(even if I think I'm entitled to a gi-r-r-l-growl now and then!)
even if...whatever the excuse!
... as he drove away I thought, h-m-m!
 if that was our last good-bye I would wish I had put my boots back on and 'helped' him

"In Marriage; it is the little things that are the big things."
When we got the above quote in a wedding card I didn't 'get' it like I do now!

Calls for a re-run of this song!

Friday, June 8, 2018

Gotta Get to The Wedding On Time!!!


Jim just called to tell me he figured something out;
there’s not enough time in a day or  hours before lunch…
He’s trying to get home in time for a wedding at one!
We definitely want to be ready for this wedding on time BUT if we're late there will be grace
...not so in that Great and Final Marriage Banquet.
Did you RSVP yet?
"Behold, now is the time of favor; now is the day of salvation!"
2 Cor.6:2


But, if we wait
‘til our work is done
It will be too late
The wedding starts at one

Ah, nobody here
Knows the day or the hour
When the Bridegroom appears
In glory and power

Today is for all
Whether rich or poor
To make our call
To His invitation sure

Say, what would we do
If this was the day
When our answer came due
Oh, what would we say?

Because if we wait
Til our work is done
It will be too late
The wedding starts at one!

© Janet Martin



Revelation 19:6-9 (ESV)

The Marriage Supper of the Lamb

Then I heard what seemed to be the voice of a great multitude, 
like the roar of many waters 
and like the sound of mighty peals of thunder, crying out,
“Hallelujah!
For the Lord our God
    the Almighty reigns.
Let us rejoice and exult
    and give him the glory,
for the marriage of the Lamb has come,
    and his Bride has made herself ready;
it was granted her to clothe herself
    with fine linen, bright and pure”—
for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints.
And the angel said[a] to me, 
“Write this: Blessed are those who are invited to the marriage supper of the Lamb.” 
And he said to me, “These are the true words of God.”